Loving Heart Connections®
Spiritual ConnectionDeveloped by Dr. Jane V. Bissler · Stewardship of Desirée
Love Knows No Distance.
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A Spiritual Communication
& Connection System
Loving Heart Connections® is an evolving spiritual, energetic, self-healing system — a communication and connection system designed to establish a bridge between you and a Loved One in Spirit, your Spiritual Guidance, and your very soul. Whether you’ve lost a child, a parent, a partner, or a friend — this system was designed for you.
The healing comes from within you, facilitated by Desirée through a SPIRIT-given system designed to open pathways of communication that are yours to keep.
Loving Heart Connections® uses bilateral stimulation utilizing specific eye movements, sound, and touch to build the bridge of connection, the bridge of reunion, the bridge of forgiveness, the bridge of understanding, the bridge of remembrance, the bridge of wisdom.
Developed by Dr. Jane V. Bissler to assist parents grieving the loss of a child, this beautiful modality has blossomed into one that supports anyone who has experienced any type of loss, and assists with connecting with Spiritual Guidance and the soul to help navigate our learning, our development, our experiences, our journeys, and soul expansion.
We know it takes courage to reach out — to hope that connection is still possible.
You are seen here.
You are welcome here.
And you don’t have to take this step alone.
Why not make connections? Why not make it your life purpose to have connections? Why not be provided with the grace of those who love you unconditionally? Why not accept the learning from the higher orders?
— SADO · SADO Circle Programs™, Session #50, March 28, 2024
The Bridges You Build
Each session opens a pathway — a bridge — between you and those in Spirit. Through bilateral stimulation, these bridges are built, strengthened, and made yours to keep.
Who You Can Connect With
Loving Heart Connections® opens the space for communication, healing, and continued relationship with those in Spirit and the deepest aspects of who you are.
Loved Ones in Spirit
Children, parents, partners, siblings, friends — anyone who has crossed over. Reconnect, communicate, and continue the relationship.
Your Spiritual Guidance
Masters, angels, teachers, and helpers who walk with you. Build a direct line of communication with those who guide your path.
Your Ancestors
Those who came before you — your lineage, your heritage, your bloodline. Connect with ancestral wisdom and healing that spans generations.
Your Soul
The very essence of who you are. Access wisdom, purpose, and truth that lives within the deepest part of your being.
Every connection deepens what was never truly lost.
Ready to build your bridge?
Here’s the beauty — after one two-hour session, you will have the information needed to continue the work that is started during your session, if you choose to do so.
— Desirée
“The brokenhearted are those who feel separated from SPIRIT, from the ONE. That separation does not exist. The separation from one’s loved ones, child, and physical family members also does not exist. Our foundation and our platform regarding this must be well understood.”
— SADO · Awakening: Book 1
What to Expect
Whether this is your first time exploring spirit communication or you’ve been drawn to this work for years, Desirée walks with you every step of the way.
Before Your Session
A brief call or email exchange with Desirée to go over any questions you have.
Building Your Bridge
Desirée will go over every step and answer any questions you have along the way as you build your bridge of connection and communication. Desirée works with you as you work with your Spiritual Guidance Team to create the protected space for your session.
Your Moment
You’re guided to build your bridge — you may hear, feel, see, or simply know your loved one’s presence. Every experience is unique.
Yours to Keep — For Life
You receive your recording and the tools to continue the bonds on your own, for life.
Your Session
All Loving Heart Connections® sessions are facilitated via Zoom by Desirée. Each session is recorded and provided to you.
Group Practice Sessions
Desirée offers group sessions for those who have experienced a Loving Heart Connections® session. Desirée facilitates the group session providing the platform and opportunity to ask questions, receive information, and work with others who are using the system. Come experience Loving Heart Connections® in this group’s energy. Simply amazing!
Sign Up for Group SessionsQ-sort research — results releasing with the book, September 2026. Deep healing on mental, emotional, and spiritual levels.
...the possibilities are incredible
Continuing the Bonds
During your session, you will learn how to use Loving Heart Connections® to build this bridge — to maintain and continue the bonds after your session is closed. This allows for a unique opportunity for growth and development for you AND for your Loved One in Spirit.
By continuing the bonds we have, we offer one another the space for forgiveness, for love, for understanding. Having the ability to continue active relationships — whether with a Loved One in Spirit, our Spiritual Guidance, or the very essence of who we are, the soul — is the very core of this modality.
Build the bridge. Trust.
Build the bonds. Grow.
Continue the bonds. Heal.
What you build in a Loving Heart Connections® session is yours — for the rest of your life. The bridges, the bonds, the connection.
Yours to keep.
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Loving Heart Connections®
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The Science, the System, and the Stories of Staying Connected
The first book on Loving Heart Connections® — featuring the Q-sort research results, the story of how this SPIRIT-given system came to be, the evolving architecture behind every session, and the voices of those who sat down, closed their eyes, and encountered something that changed the shape of their grief.
Written by Dr. Jane V. Bissler and Desirée — the developer and steward of Loving Heart Connections®, bringing together clinical expertise, spiritual evolution, and the voices of those whose lives this work has changed.
About Loving Heart Connections®
Dr. Jane V. Bissler — retired licensed clinical counselor (Ph.D., LPCC-S, FT), past president of the Association for Death Education and Counseling, and co-author of four books on grief — devoted her career to one central truth: that love does not end at death. Her clinical specialty was among the most tender in all of counseling: parents grieving the death of a child.
Over more than three decades in clinical practice, Jane served families through Counseling for Wellness and Kelly’s Grief Center, taught graduate-level courses at Kent State University, and wrote a weekly newspaper column on grief for twenty-five years. She co-authored four books on grief and loss, was elected president of the Association for Death Education and Counseling (ADEC), and earned the designation of Fellow in Thanatology (FT) — one of the highest recognitions in the field.
It was this work — sitting with the deepest losses imaginable — that led Jane to the intersection of clinical practice and spiritual healing, and ultimately to the development of Loving Heart Connections®. Her legacy lives on in the facilitators she trained, the families she served, and in the system she created.
Desirée has trained with Dr. Bissler since 2013 — trained to use, facilitate, and teach Loving Heart Connections® under Jane’s direct guidance and mentorship.
When Dr. Bissler retired from clinical practice, SPIRIT selected Desirée to carry this work forward — to teach others, facilitate connections, and steward the system’s continued evolution. Desirée has been charged with channeling the updates to the live and evolving system.
Loving Heart Connections offers a way to directly connect with loved ones in spirit, spiritual guidance, and the soul. This eliminates the need for a medium. It empowers you to directly communicate, to directly receive healing and information, to strengthen alignment and connection with soul and spirit, and continue bonds and relationships with loved ones who are no longer in the physical body.
— SADO · SADO Circle Programs™, Session #57
“All healing, all healing needs to go into the mind. The body cannot be healed until the mind is healed. The mind is healed of fear, and the mind is healed using forgiveness because the mind is the seat of the soul for many.”
— SADO · SADO Circle Programs™, Session #44, June 8, 2023
A Message from Dr. Jane V. Bissler
Loving Heart Connections® was developed through SPIRIT. As a licensed Ph.D. level mental health clinical counselor specializing in grief and working mostly with parents whose adolescent children died suddenly, I was using trauma therapy to help relieve my clients’ devastating grief responses. One of those therapies was Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). The training, practicum and supervision of this protocol is intense and prepares the clinician well for the trauma processing their clients will experience.
Beginning in 1997 or 1998 several of my clients, with whom I was using EMDR to help them with their grief trauma, began to spontaneously have after death communications with their children and loved ones. These experiences were happening within the EMDR protocol. Talking with my EMDR supervisor, I found this was a unique happening and she had no experience with it. However, it seemed like a miracle as my clients were very relieved by their experiences and came back to the office to reconnect and revisit with their deceased children and loved ones numerous times. This was done through and within the EMDR protocol. I began to notice that the full protocol seemed unnecessary as my clients were no longer dealing with the trauma of their loss but joyfully connecting with their loved ones.
I believe SPIRIT provided the information of exactly what was needed to help my clients have these experiences. Through this guidance, and over the years, Loving Heart Connections® morphed into the modality it is today.
It is NOT EMDR. It is NOT IADC. Both of those modalities work to help clients release trauma. Loving Heart Connections® was developed to provide direct personal communication between the client and their Spiritual Guidance, High Selves, ancestors, deceased loved ones, and recently their inner self or Soul.
It is a modality that is facilitated and taught by trained energy workers and mental health providers directly to the client. There is no reason to have a session from a different modality before experiencing Loving Heart Connections®. If you are being asked to do so, please inquire as to why, as according to SPIRIT it is not necessary at this time. It is designed to be used by the client on an ongoing basis to be in contact with spiritual energy at the time of the client’s choosing. Bilateral stimulation, used in both EMDR and Loving Heart Connections®, is the one common element.
— Jane Vair Bissler, Ph.D., LPCC-S, FT
Training Available
Training is available for those who wish to learn Loving Heart Connections® — to facilitate for clients or to add to your existing practice. Desirée personally mentors each student through the training process.
For Energy Workers
Add Loving Heart Connections® to your healing practice. Learn to facilitate connections for your clients and guide them in building their own bridges.
For Licensed Healthcare Professionals
Integrate Loving Heart Connections® into your clinical practice. A powerful complement for counselors, therapists, and providers working with grief, loss, and spiritual wellness.
Once you’ve built your bridge, the connection is yours — to deepen, to strengthen, to carry forward.
The more you use Loving Heart Connections®, the more you gain.
Not sure where to start? Schedule a free Discovery Call.
✉ desiree@clearingyoursoul.com · Sessions via Zoom · Recording provided